Today we saw the topic about children. In this topic, we saw how to grow a child, what basic things they need, how thoughts differ from their respective age, and what's the parents share to take care of child.
Children
Every child is gods gift. So, our biggest share is to grown up the child good way as well as good thoughts.
In my previous blog,I mentioned the how thoughts differ their respective ages(avoid negative thoughts).
Once again,I remember that,
In Child hood, they have no commitments, only playing with friends and enjoy.
In teenage, physical appearance and thoughts have changed.
Adults, they are enjoying their days with friends while playing or outing. They got newly matured voice.
Youngsters, they are also enjoying as well as earning to run their family. They handle everything easily. Take care of everybody. Physical appearance totally change.
Then above 60's, they just give advice and suggestion. Physical appearance change.
So above mentioned that children thoughts are change with their respective ages.
Parents
Parents are the first god for child. Why I am take here parents, they only carry the biggest share of this.
Some parents they do their duty.
Some parents grown up the child for his dreams.
Some parents grown up the child for their dreams.
Most of the parents grown up the child jealous comparing other child.
So, parents mentality is selfish, no time, money, beauty, enjoyment, passion, job, etc.,
In the above thing,I mentioned only practically happens, not to make evil in front of child.
So, hereafter we saw how to grown up the child with good thoughts as well as good way.
What are the basic need for child:
1.Always encourage your child.
-it will do any age.
2.They need to play with friends.
-because refresh their physically and mentally. It's very important.
3.You have to give respect in front of others. Don't insult in front of others.
-because they feel I'm not to worth to live.
4.Your house location must not be alone.
-because your child not to play with anybody only television , video games, mobile phones.
5.Don't control your child.
-because offense not obedient things might be happen.
6.Don't refuse your child thoughts and words.
-because he is new of this world, so he has many new things he knows without his knowledge.
7.You must teach how to spend your money.
-because destruction is easy, but construction is very hard.
8.Don't buy everything for children asking.
-what thing your child want that only buy with respective age. He knows the value of money in child age itself.
9.You have to teach to prey
-he also knows god.
10.Don't compare your child with other child
-because it is the only reason raising jealous in child's mind.
In the above things you must provide your child, it's just a seed to put in your child's heart.
How to upload good things in your child for parents:
It's not difficult, it's very simple.In child hood, we are give freedom to play, to do anything. But we slightly monitor the child. Next step is Education, it is very important step. Because some educational institutions not really care your child, not find out his individual talents. They do only institution aim or earning money, not to take care of your child.
So, your child's educational institution is, to find out their individual talents, always give hands to them, support, give them encourage.
Then you must follow the child basic needs.
Sometimes basic needs not follow for the situation. That's okay. But don't do ever. You'll be the best parents of your child's thoughts.
If you don't do these things, may be you're child affect physically Or mentally. It might be happen without your knowledge and your child's knowledge. Thanks!!
In the above content is not to hurt anybody. It's my personal experience and my knowledge.
If any mistakes or any wrong things or like, you will comment on comment box.
Save Your valuable child. Save your generation.
Best of luck..........